Resources to Cope with the Holiday Blues

The holiday season is a bustling time that may bring a mix of emotions – it can be a joyous time and also a time of stress, anxiety, loneliness and depression.

While these feelings can creep in any time of year, they can be more common in November and December.

"The winter holidays are an evocative time and for some people can be emotionally difficult, leading to episodes of depression, anxiety and harmful substance use," Luke Bergmann, PhD, director of County of San Diego Behavioral Health Services said. "Recognizing symptoms is the first step toward improving mental well-being during this time of year."

Tips for the holiday season include:

  • Establish realistic goals and expectations

  • Set a spending limit and stick to it

  • Limit consumption of alcoholic beverages

  • Make plans with others and spend time with people who are supportive and caring

  • Look for opportunities to express kindness by volunteering at a shelter, meal delivery service or senior center

  • Eat healthy, exercise regularly and try to laugh; laughing is a great aerobic exercise

While the holidays can feel overwhelming, getting back to your normal routine also helps keep these difficult feelings at bay. As the holidays subside, these feelings may dwindle for some.

If these feelings linger or interfere with your daily life, you may need to reach out to your primary care physician or a mental health professional. Look for these signs:

  • Loss of interest in activities that used to bring you joy

  • Eating more or less than usual, or gaining or losing weight

  • Having trouble sleeping, or sleeping more than usual

  • Feeling slow or restless

  • Feeling hopeless, helpless, or inadequate

  • Having difficulty concentrating, thinking clearly or making decisions

  • Persistent thoughts of death or suicide

  • Withdrawal from others

For more information and mental health resources visit www.up2sd.org. If you are experiencing a mental health, suicide or substance use crisis please call 988 or the Access and Crisis Line 1-888-724-7240.

In addition, the County offers employees free confidential counseling and referral services through an Employee Assistance Program. Learn more about our EAP

Your View: Fallbrook Tree Lighting

Nancy Santillan from County Parks and Recreation shared these photos of the community, including student musicians and festive folklorico dancers, who gathered for the tree lighting on Dec. 1 and to celebrate the season at the Fallbrook Community Center.

Share your photos! If you see a coworker getting the job done, a beautiful sunset over your office or a wonderful County program being offered—snap a pic and submit it. Be sure to include information about the photo and your name. One image will be posted to InSite every week and may be shared on social media.

See more of Your View photos.

Join CSDFEA’s Holiday of Hope Drive

Spread cheer and hope this holiday season. Consider donating to the County of San Diego Filipino American Employee Association’s Holiday of Hope Dollar Drive. Proceeds will benefit low-income families served by the Union of Pan Asian Communications (UPAC) Child and Adolescent Mental Health program.

The employee resource group will match each dollar donated up to $250.

Send your donation via Venmo to @CSDFEA by Friday, Dec. 8.

For more information, email csdfea@sdcounty.ca.gov.

See the flyer below.

2 holiday cards with photos of donations

Your View: Kicking Off the Holidays

The County Administration Center was lit on Dec. 1 to kickoff the holiday season.

Share your photos! If you see a coworker getting the job done, a beautiful sunset over your office or a wonderful County program being offered—snap a pic and submit it. Be sure to include information about the photo and your name. One image will be posted to InSite every week and may be shared on social media.

See more of Your View photos.

Public Safety Shares Holiday Spirit with the Community

A probation officer shops with a girl at the 2022 shop with a cop event.

The holidays are a time of giving to others, and County Probation, Sheriff’s and District Attorney are getting in the spirit with several programs that make a difference in the communities they serve.  

Shop with a Cop 

For many in law enforcement, it’s just not December until multi-agency patrol vehicles caravan from Sea World to Target with kids as part of Shop with a Cop. The event is hosted by STAR/PAL, a local non-profit organization that builds relationships between youth and law enforcement. This year’s Shop with a Cop event is Saturday, Dec. 2. More than 300 deputies, officers and agents will accompany 300 children on a $200 shopping spree at Target on Sports Arena Boulevard. The children are selected by school counselors and officer referrals.  

Sheriff’s deputies with a shop with a cop participant.

Probation Holiday Helpers 

STAR/PAL is also organizing a Santa’s Pals Holiday Giveaway on Tuesday, Dec. 19, where 115 children who have been referred for the event due to family hardship can enjoy hot cocoa, play in snow, visit Santa Claus, and receive a gift. San Diego County Probation officers are participating as helpers. 

DA Holiday Breakfast 

The District Attorney’s North County Family Justice Center is inviting back all the families they have served in 2023 for a Holiday Breakfast, celebration and gifts on Saturday, Dec. 9.  

Sheriff’s Department Gift Baskets 

San Diego County Sheriff’s Department volunteers bring holiday gift baskets to community members who are part of the You Are Not Alone (YANA) program. Typically, YANA participants have no close family or do not leave their homes.   

Toys for Tots 

Sheriff stations and substations will be collecting new unwrapped toys for the U.S. Marine Corps’ Toys for Tots campaign.  

The District Attorney’s CARE Center will be doing a toy giveaway in conjunction with Toys for Tots on Saturday, Dec. 15. 

Holiday Shopping Safety 

Deputies are also providing an extra layer of security by monitoring shopping center parking lots throughout the county from SkyWatch, a contraption that looks like a cherry picker but carries sophisticated equipment such as a heat-sensing camera with high-power, high-resolution lenses.  

The Sheriff’s Department also suggest: 

  • Shop during the day when possible and shop with a friend. 

  • Be aware of your surroundings. 

  • Don’t overload your arms with packages and bags while shopping. 

  • Park in a well‐lit area. 

  • Have your keys out and ready when approaching your car. 

  • Be aware of how you carry your purse or wallet. Don’t make it easy for someone to grab. 

  • When parking, lock your car doors and take valuables with you. 

  • If you absolutely must drop purchases off at your car and continue shopping, consider moving your car to another parking spot in case there are criminal spotters who might have seen you loading up your car with bags. This extra step could make a criminal think you are leaving. 

Home Vacation Checks 

For those who may be going out of town for the holidays, you can request free home vacation checks in advance to have Sheriff Volunteer Patrol members check on your home while you are away. This free service is available year-round. 

Holiday Bowl Parade 

The Sheriff’s Department rounds out the season with its leadership and mounted patrol participating in the Holiday Bowl Parade on Dec. 27. 

AAACE Turns 10!

Join the African American Association of County Employees for a 10th anniversary party on Saturday, Dec. 9 from 2 to 5 p.m. The ERG event will be held at Spacebar, 7454 University Ave, Unit A, La Mesa, CA 91942. RSVP now.

Founded in 2013, AAACE continues to proudly serve and represent County employees through connection, inspiration and success.

Learn more about AAACE.

See the flyer below.

Help CECO Support Local Nonprofits This GivingTuesday

This GivingTuesday you have the chance to have a big impact on your friends, neighbors and community. The San Diego County Employees’ Charitable Organization (CECO) donates 100% of the funds they raise to local community organizations and employees in need.

This year alone, CECO has awarded $110,252 in grants to 68 local nonprofit programs  throughout the San Diego region, along with employees and retirees in need. All this is possible because of employee donations.

There are two simple ways to give to CECO:

  1. Become a biweekly contributor for as little as $2 per pay period or increase your current biweekly contribution by $1.

  2. Make a one-time donation with cash, by check, PayPal Giving Fund or Donorbox.

CECO is committed to diversity, equity and upholding the charitable arm of County of San Diego employees. Since 1956, CECO has distributed over $7 million to the local community by way of grants to local non-profit organizations and assistance to eligible employees and retirees in need.

Learn more about CECO.

Gallery: Show Us Your ‘Ugly’ Holiday Attire

PROBATION DEPARTMENT, REENTRY SUPPORT UNIT in 2022

‘Tis the season for ugly holiday sweaters, suits, dresses, ties and more.

It doesn’t matter if the festive fashion is store-bought or homemade, we want to see your holiday style! Submit a photo of your holiday outfit and/or take a look at how your coworkers are putting the merry and bright in fashion this season.

Submit a photo of your merry and bright holiday outfit.

Animal Services

Probation ADministration Center

Lillian Gabat, Nerissa Groyon, Monaliza Asis, Emily Pascua, Lynna Barrientos, and Maria Paz  - DPC Mission Valley (HHSA)

Desiree Romero Office Assistant, In-Home Supportive Services, Aging and Independence Services

Andrew Gregor, County Counsel, and Lilly Payton, BHS, Communication & Engagement

California Children’s Services, San Diego North Medical Therapy Unit

Treasurer-Tax Collector, Special Functions Division

Annika Manlutac, Lilly Payton, Megan Huey, Cassandra Surban, Evan Hodges, BHS, Communication & Engagement

Treasurer-Tax Collector, Special Functions Division

APCD Business Support Service Division

Epidemiology and Immunization Services Branch

PDS Land Development

Self-Sufficiency Services - North Central Family Resource Center

Self-Sufficiency Services - North Central Family Resource Center

Self-Sufficiency Services - North Central Family Resource Center

Chula Vista RCC

Central Region – CFWB Angelica Valdez, Vanessa Cabrera, Diana Lopez, and Karlet Ornelas

Department of Public Works – Management Services Division - Financial Services

Southeastern FRC

BA2 team from North Coastal Court Intervention: Nicolette Dux, Israel Carreon, Maria Pearson, Krista Paddock, Roxana Osorio, Katie Smith, and Lisa Uzitas

SSS – National City Family Resource Center

Christy Carlson, Compliance Officer, Director, Business Assurance and Compliance, Health & Human Services Agency

Jon Aasted and Jennifer Sieber at DHR-HR Services

CVO office – Realty Assessment Clerks, Claudia and Roxy & SDTTC Tax Collectors, Gloria and Anita

Darwin Espejo and Rhonda Crowder, BHS Programs & Services

Department of Homeless Solutions and Equitable Communities – Office of Equitable Communities - Community Action Partnership (CAP)

North Coastal Child & Family Well-Being-Office of Child Safety 

County Counsel Paralegals -L to R Samantha Cheetham and Danielle Murray

L to R: Leah Samaniego, Probation Department; Marizel Palustre, Child and Family Well-Being; and Miriam Legaspi (right), retired Sheriff employee

Winthrop Parker, Administrative Analyst III, Child and Family Well-Being-Polinsky Children’s Center

Spring Valley Community Center – Parks and Recreation

National City FRC

County Counsel HHSA Advisory Team
Front Row: Kathryn Wotherspoon, Caitlin Rae, Andrew Gregor, Katherine Hart
Second Row: Emily Genovese, Anjana Pottathil, Jane Rhee, Liza Manio, Lisa Macchione, Kyle Sand, Liliana Gomez, Raquel Young
Photobombing Spider-Man style: Joy Nagal

North Coastal PHC Public Health Nurses, Supervisors, Support Staff & Santa

L to R: Janet Velazquez, Geny Campos, Eugene Choi
Financial & Support Services Division, AIS

Jon Aasted, Human Resources Analyst, Human Resources

SAF UNIT,National City FRC

Ivonne Torres and John Patino, AWM-Pest Detection

Maria Gomez, RCC

Sherry Brideau, Admin Analyst II, Probation

Kellen Hopp, Graduate Student Worker, Office of Strategy and Innovation- Live Well San Diego Support Team

Joanna Rivera, Human Service Specialist, Self- Sufficieny Services-North Coastal Family Resource Center

Jackie Ho, Epidemiologist II

Rod Gullo, M.Engr., Retiree, Aging & Independence Services

Megumi Sueda, Adult Protective Services Specialist ,Aging and Independence Services

Lakeside Community Center staff and Lindo Lake Park stafF, DPR

Public Health Services- HIV, STD & Hepatitis C Branch

Behavioral Health Services Office of Programs & Services

P. Maria Pham, Human Resources Specialist PSG, Department of Child Support Services

DLM Branch Staff, Front row L to R: Lydia & Olga Lucia, Back row L to R: Alicia, Polly & Elias

Back row: Carla Zubiria, Nina Jimenez, Lindsey DiMartino, Kisa Roberts
Mid row: Fukiko Heineman, JoAnn Scott, Karen Miller, Yvette Saborio
Kneeling: Soheyla Talebimarandi, Rosa Cortez, Leah Nelso

County Counsel employees left to right: Lisa Storing, Roxy Phelps, Inga Lintvedt, Shiri Hoffman, Monica Hall, Danielle Murray, Sam Cheetham, Andrew Gregor, Antonia Smith.

Epidemiology & Immunization Services Branch Promotion, Outreach, & Programs Team

Ugly Christmas Sweater

North Central Family Resource Center

Ugly Christmas Sweater

Auditor and Controller, Office of Revenue and Recovery

North Coastal Family Resource Center

Abby Sterk, Legal Support Assistant II, AIS

Eric Lohmann, Information Technology Specialist

Mission Valley, Document Processing Center

From L to R: Bernadette Almendra, Erica Salmeron, Monica Morales, Rowena Agapito, Daniela Barba and Jack Ramsay, Recorder County Clerk (RCC).

Get Outside on Green Friday

Head outdoors this Friday, Nov. 24 for “Green Friday”. County Parks and Recreation is again hosting the annual holiday to encourage more quality time together outside on the day after Thanksgiving.

Parking fees will be waived that day so visitors can picnic, play and explore 380 miles of trails at  dozens of County parks without worrying about fees !

So go green. Plan your own adventure or attend one of several events planned throughout the holiday weekend. Events are active, educational and open to residents and visitors of all ages, interests and abilities.

For more Green Friday details, visit County News Center.